The following list of what ladies want is based on my personal research and informal interviews. Even though this information is projected for men alone women also may benefit from reading it as well.

 What Women Want in a Man

• A man who is self-assured.
• A man who loves her.
• A man who is caring & does romantic things for her.
• A man who finds her pretty at all times and in all places.
• A man who gives her protection by totaling (committing) to her.
• A man who is a good giver for her and any kids.
• A man who is determined.
• A man who has an occupation or is working towards one.
• A man who takes care of his character.
• A man who is an idealist.
• A man with a good judgment of humor
• A man who listens to her for a few minutes daily.
• A man who compliments her view.
• A man who she finds good-looking.
• A man who dresses well & appropriately to occasions.
• A man who keeps his body in shape.
• A man who has the same ideals and principles as her.
• A man who has the same vision for the future as she.
• A man who can be trustworthy to her.
• A man who can be susceptible but strong.
• A man who she can love without end!

Myths About What Women Want

That all women, want a man who is tall, muscular, and handsome.  It is not true. Just a small percentage of women tends’ to love men with these characteristics. Most women are more attracted to a self-confident, ambitious, and intelligent man. They are not for ones driven by is outward looks.

That all women, want a man who is rich. It is not true at all. A small percentage of women, go for rich men. The top main concern of most women is to have a man who loves them. Riches by itself, is not much of an encouragement for most women.

That all women, want a man who is well brilliant. If this has been you assertion as a guy, you have been on the wrong fucking side for such long a time. Make e no surprise you oo. It is just but a dying little percentage of women that likes such men. What the majority of women want most is a man who knows how to make crazy passionate love to her. This is what gives her true fulfillment.

That, women want a man without a bald head (haha… no laf abeg). Not true. It’s just a small percentage of women who don’t like bald or balding men. Some women like or even prefer bald men. Whether a man is bald or balding is not a top concern for most women. This is particularly true if the man is not consumed by his hair loss and is generally happy with his clean head.

That, women want a man who will take them out every day or weekend and buy them a lot of stuff. Not, at all. Just a small percentage of women do these things. Most women do not look forward to to be taken out every weekend or showered with gifts. Women’s preferences for how they want to spend their weekends differ widely.

                   What women want most is a man who will simply love her.

The following list of what men want is based on my personal research and informal interviews. Even though this information is projected for women alone, men also may benefit from reading it as well.

What Men Wants in a Lady:

Ø  A lady who he finds pretty.

Ø  A lady who finds him good looking.

Ø  A lady who tries to look her best nearly all of the time.

Ø  A lady who monitors and controls her weight.

Ø  A lady who has the same sexual desires as him.

Ø  A lady who can be equally reserved and not reserved.

Ø  A lady who can think for herself.

Ø  A lady who includes raison d'être and common sense for decisions.

Ø  A lady who respects as well as compliment him.

Ø  A lady who shares his values and morality.

Ø  A lady who shares loads of his likes along with dislikes.

Ø  A lady who shares the same life goals as him.

Ø  A lady who is easy and dedicated to him.

Ø  A lady who pays attention his passions.

Ø  A lady who is supportive, caring, compassionate about his work and passions.

Ø  A lady who do not use her period as an excuse.

Ø  A lady who maintains a constructive stance, feelings, mind set and attitude.

Ø  A lady who inspires him rather than bitching.

Ø  A lady who spends money judiciously.

Ø  A lady who is unselfish.

Ø  A lady who he can love forever!

Myths About What Men Wants

That all men wants a lady with big breasts. No, no, no. it is not true and can never be true. Just a hand full fraction of men likes to have a lady with big breasts. Large proportion of men likes breasts of all shapes and sizes. Some men prefer small breasts.

That all men wants ladies who look like a model. It is not true and has never been true. A small percentage of men love ladies who look like a model. Men have specific tastes that include ladies of all different shapes, sizes, and looks. Generally, men place more value on a woman being at or near her correct weight than how pretty or model-like her appearance is. There are exceptions to this however. A small percentage of men prefer full-figured ladies.

That all men wants a lady who dresses in petite skirts and tight tops. It is not true. A small proportion of men likes ladies who frequently wears short skirts. It’s true that most men like to see a woman in a dress or skirt every once in a while, but many men enjoy seeing her in a pair of nice fitting jeans just as well.

That all man wants sex on a first date or at least by the third date. It is not true. Most men will make several attempts in the direction of having sex, but it’s not a supreme necessity. Men try to have sex because of physical/sexual need and what I call ‘their male pride”. It’s as if it’s their duty as a man to make an effort. Men are often pleased when a women says no because the pressure is off to prove their manliness. They are also frequently intrigued when a woman rebuffs! The very first thing that comes to their mind at that very hour is that they have found an excellent woman. If a woman gives in too quickly, she may also lose the opportunity to gain anymore respect from the man if there was. Her capacity to be faithful to the said man may come into question as well.

That all men will not give a lady what she wants unless she’s a bitch! It is not true! A woman who is a bitch will eventually get her man to build her a house. But a woman who is a princess will inspire her man to build her a citadel!

What men want most is a woman who will make him the leading actor.

The Romantic ideas you are about to get acquainted to is technically driven in two flavors. Some offers an unpopular twist to traditional methods and some of them are original.
1. Send notes surprisingly. Send or leave short notes about your love for them or an acknowledged appreciation for something they did for you on a constant basis, never forget to get them astonished. Sending them by electronic mail is okay e.g. Gmail, Yahoo mail, Hotmail etc, but hand written notes are most appreciated. To add a little spice, put them in unimaginable locations where you know they will surely locate them.
2. Send a stream of buds. Have a florist take a small “bud” vase of flowers for several days, weeks, or months before a special day or event like an anniversary, Valentine’s Day, Christmas Day, Salahs, weekend getaway, vacation, or marriage proposal. Include one of those tiny florist’s cards with a note about how you feel about them with each delivery.
Flowers have traditionally been to me a form of Romantic gift for women, but most men appreciate them as well. Just be sure that the florist picks a vase and flower colors that are appropriate for your man. Knowing his favorite colors will help you achieve this successfully. If you know that your man will not appreciate receiving flowers, send him a basket of fruit or cheese and crackers.
Although buying a group of bud vase deliveries is one of the most economical choices you can make at a florist, there is a less expensive alternative. As many grocery stores now have small florist departments. You will not find as broad of an assortment of flowers and vases, but the cost is usually less. Doing it this way, you would need to drop by a store in your area periodically, pick up the flowers and a card, and deliver it yourself.
3. Buy special tickets and deliver them with elaboration. Buy tickets to a concert or play that you acknowledge they would love to see and send them to their work place. Use a mail delivery service that requires a signature to create some fanfare when they arrive. Be sure to include a note from you with the delivery. You might also add a written plan for the evening that includes dinner and/or drinks before the show. If you really want to make it special evening, rent a limousine! Include a picture of it from the company’s website or phone book advertisement with your note.
4. Plant a symbolically special tree. Give them almost up to 15 gallon tree with a note comparing your love or relationship with the growth of the tree. This gift will go on reminding them of you in a bigger and bigger way for years! I am recommending a five (5) to 15 gallon tree for these reasons: They are less expensive, easier to handle, and usually grow better than larger ones.
Be sure to find out how it is planted properly. You do not want this symbol of your love to die! If it does, I would suggest that you replace it immediately!
If they live in an apartment or condominium, just get them a tree that grows indoors.
5. Give them tiny gifts. Buy tiny gifts that are symbolic to some aspect of your relationship, in an amount that matches the length of time you’ve been together or the number of days leading up to an important event. These gifts should not be expensive, but well planned out. Focus on clever, funny, and outrageous things. If you’re artistic in nature or by profession, make the gifts yourself.
6. Go out to dinner backwards. Go to an area that has an ice cream, pastry, and candy store within walking distance of each other. Start the evening by going to a place where you can just sit, relax, and talk for as long as you want. Then when you’re ready, go shopping for dessert! Go to each one of stores and just look around and take in the wonderful fragrances. When you’re done, talk about your favorites in as much detail as you’re inspired to do. Afterwards, go back, buy a pair, and savor each bite! Next, go to a nice café, but instead of dinner order several appetizers! If you’re still hungry after all that go ahead and order dinner.
7. Banquet under the stars at sun SET! Make or buy a nice dinner and take it to the beach, lake, or park just before sunset. Discharge up the chores according to your personality talents. Add some elegance by bringing a tablecloth, candles, and firewood. If you have a portable CD/MP3 player bring that too, but put forth the effort to select just the right music.
8. Banquet under the stars at sun RISE! The peacefulness and solitude are what makes this meticulous time of the day special. Make or buy a nice breakfast and take it to the beach, lake, or park just before sunrise. Split up the chores according to your individual talents. Add some panache by bringing a tablecloth and firewood. If you have a portable CD/MP3 player bring that too, but put forth the effort to select just the right music.
9. Have dinner in a bubble bath! Place a nice board across the center of the tub. Place perfumed candles in calculated locations. Place a small table or box next to the tub for extra space as needed. This is probably obvious, but be sure that the “entire” bathroom is spotless and fresh smelling!
Finger foods or heavy appetizers works best in this condition. After the bathtub is filled with hot water and mountains of foam turn off the lights, put on some suitable music (in a room nearby), and invite them to join you. Bon voyage! Notes: (a) I recommend putting on music in a room nearby for these reasons. To get rid of the possibility of electrocution and for better sound quality as bathrooms tend to create echoes. (b) When using candles, it’s essential that you are vigilant when it comes to fire safety.
10. Create a multi-sensory sunset environment inside your residence. Get as many perfumed candles as you can afford. Avoid candles that smell like food. Food scents are not as romantic as striking fragrances. Arrange them strategically throughout your residence. Turn off the lights completely. Put on some music with some real romantic enthusiasm. I particularly like Andrea’s ”Sogno” album. A perfect time to do this is during a romantic dinner at home, just before going out dancing, or at the end of the evening. Note: When using candles, it’s essential that you are vigilant when it comes to fire safety.
11. Add some romantic surprise to a weekend getaway or vacation. Setup a weekend getaway or vacation to one of the places they have always wanted to go. Without them knowing, make one or more of these “special” arrangements:
12. Create “intimacy” by jointly agreeing to answer a special question. Ask each other this question;
“Would you make a list of 10 things that best describes me using single words or phrases, if I do the same for you?”
Note: It is recommended that you give yourselves several days to work on the list before you meet to exchange or present them. This will give you time to come up with a significant list and develop some alluring anticipation! Both steps provide a great chance for you to learn about yourself and the other person.
13. Create “romance” by mutually agreeing to answer a special question. This question I strongly suggest would definitely help out
“Would you illustrate your perfect romantic evening, if I do the same?”
N/B: It is suggested that you write this description and then exchange, read, or talk about it during a set time. Be sure to give yourselves several days so that you can come up with a comprehensive description. This activity will give you insights into the secrets to pleasing them.
14. Play your best romantic part. Go separately to a nightclub, coffeehouse, or other public places and sit across the room from each other, but in a location that gives you both eye contacts. Play a “role” as though you have never met. Do as you more often than not would when you meet someone you find eye-catching. The fact that you’ve presented yourselves as not knowing one another in the beginning encourages you to play out your parts. This idea may sound strange, and it’s not for everyone, but the romantic sensations that tend to grow out of it can be interesting and exciting.
True love combined with creativity is the formula for romantic ideas.

In a world of today my brother, we must not take chances as chances are but like a chaff that goes with the wind. Follow them with every moping opportunity and expect nothing too but criticisms and mockery on almost every right or wrong you do.

Being the best you can be is what stands you out. In your smallest strength, try not to be a copy cat but an originator, a creator and an inventor of your own ideas and opportunities as they come calling