The following list of what men want is based on my personal research and informal interviews. Even though this information is projected for women alone, men also may benefit from reading it as well.

What Men Wants in a Lady:

Ø  A lady who he finds pretty.

Ø  A lady who finds him good looking.

Ø  A lady who tries to look her best nearly all of the time.

Ø  A lady who monitors and controls her weight.

Ø  A lady who has the same sexual desires as him.

Ø  A lady who can be equally reserved and not reserved.

Ø  A lady who can think for herself.

Ø  A lady who includes raison d'être and common sense for decisions.

Ø  A lady who respects as well as compliment him.

Ø  A lady who shares his values and morality.

Ø  A lady who shares loads of his likes along with dislikes.

Ø  A lady who shares the same life goals as him.

Ø  A lady who is easy and dedicated to him.

Ø  A lady who pays attention his passions.

Ø  A lady who is supportive, caring, compassionate about his work and passions.

Ø  A lady who do not use her period as an excuse.

Ø  A lady who maintains a constructive stance, feelings, mind set and attitude.

Ø  A lady who inspires him rather than bitching.

Ø  A lady who spends money judiciously.

Ø  A lady who is unselfish.

Ø  A lady who he can love forever!

Myths About What Men Wants

That all men wants a lady with big breasts. No, no, no. it is not true and can never be true. Just a hand full fraction of men likes to have a lady with big breasts. Large proportion of men likes breasts of all shapes and sizes. Some men prefer small breasts.

That all men wants ladies who look like a model. It is not true and has never been true. A small percentage of men love ladies who look like a model. Men have specific tastes that include ladies of all different shapes, sizes, and looks. Generally, men place more value on a woman being at or near her correct weight than how pretty or model-like her appearance is. There are exceptions to this however. A small percentage of men prefer full-figured ladies.

That all men wants a lady who dresses in petite skirts and tight tops. It is not true. A small proportion of men likes ladies who frequently wears short skirts. It’s true that most men like to see a woman in a dress or skirt every once in a while, but many men enjoy seeing her in a pair of nice fitting jeans just as well.

That all man wants sex on a first date or at least by the third date. It is not true. Most men will make several attempts in the direction of having sex, but it’s not a supreme necessity. Men try to have sex because of physical/sexual need and what I call ‘their male pride”. It’s as if it’s their duty as a man to make an effort. Men are often pleased when a women says no because the pressure is off to prove their manliness. They are also frequently intrigued when a woman rebuffs! The very first thing that comes to their mind at that very hour is that they have found an excellent woman. If a woman gives in too quickly, she may also lose the opportunity to gain anymore respect from the man if there was. Her capacity to be faithful to the said man may come into question as well.

That all men will not give a lady what she wants unless she’s a bitch! It is not true! A woman who is a bitch will eventually get her man to build her a house. But a woman who is a princess will inspire her man to build her a citadel!

What men want most is a woman who will make him the leading actor.